todays sigh: an eh kind

so ive found myself coming out of something better judgement said to leave alone.
you should always try and come out of a situation with something though,right? that way its not all bad.
heres what i learned:
boys should not be rollercoasters of emotions. that ride is strictly for girls.
girls are sneeeeaaaaaaaky! and what comes around goes around,and you always get what you give. and the universe knows what youre giving too. (because i so did not do what she thinks i did to her,which made her do it to me. but again,the universe knows. the bachi gods know. and karma knows.)
people should deal with a good majority of their emotional baggage before starting something with a new someone else. because theres going to be a brand spankin' new suitcase full of'em with the new person.
people can be friends with their ex-somebodies if theyre literally JUST PLATONIC FRIENDS, not fakey "let me try to get him back" friends. (again, why everyone and their momma thinks girls are sneaky, and why even girls cant deny it.)
people should listen to their friends and family. i mean,duh,who knows you better than the people who love you?
people should not settle... it seems like people cling to the familiar-why not let go and try something new? change can be scary, but its never,ever a bad thing.the worst that can happen is it wont work out. but on the positive-what if the new is even better than what youve settled for? my granpa used to say "try it! how will you know if you like it or not if you dont even try it?" truer words were never spoken.

people shouldnt regret any kind of relationship they get involved in.if theyve been completely honest with each other, had fun, and didnt hurt the other person-good times. screw up one of those-not so good times.

people should see things through to the end.otherwise youll waste time on 'what if's later in life.
people should be honest with themselves. always. its surprisingly easier (and it makes for a happier you too) =)
people should say what or how theyre feeling.that way you can live life honestly, and with no regrets.

when the universe sends you a sign, by all means listen to it!! the universe is HUGE-it probably knows what its talking about. (john legends "take me away" and the poet. just like my birthday. maybe i do need a smack in the face =| )
well, another one of lifes lessons.